Sex and the City Boyfriends, Continued! 2-12-26

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But Carrie isn’t happy and the girls find out and Big arrives right after Petrovsky accidentally hits her. Big and Carrie make up and they go on to get married.

My point was, the shit the girls complained about were such superficial problems, made me roll my eyes. Just about every guy they dated was successful in some way. Even bartender Steve went on to have his own bar. Comic book guy had HIS OWN BUSINESS. How many guys did the ladies date who were unemployed, had bad hygiene, weren’t particularly educated, dressed terrible, had zero class, bad grammar, overly horny, or homeless?

Part of the reason I think this show was so popular is because it really WAS a fantasy. Women watched it thinking they too might have good jobs or own successful businesses, and have nothing really earth-shattering affect them. They didn’t have to worry the guys they dated might be serial killers or serial rapists. For the most part, they were good-looking, had nice builds, good hygiene, good breath, etc., etc. and no arrest records. Yeah, Samantha DID get cancer, but presumably she had insurance and enough money to get her through. The last person I know who got cancer worked full-time at Lowe’s and probably didn’t have $100K saved for emergencies.

More Sex and the City Boyfriends, and Carrie’s Never Ending Complaints

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But could ANYTHING/ANYBODY satisfy Carrie? I’m thinking no. She bitches at Big for his crappy dating behavior, yet does the same thing to Aidan. Bitches at Petrovsky for being “too romantic” instead of just romantic enough. Bitch, he BOUGHT that pink dress for you. That wasn’t enough? The poem he recited wasn’t enough? Dancing at Lincoln Center wasn’t enough?

So of course Petrovsky wants to go back to Paris. Having broken up with Big because he didn’t tell her IMMEDIATELY that he might have to go to Paris for a few months, they break up, but not before splattering McDonald’s all over his kitchen. But a friend of hers falls out of a window, and Carrie decides she’ll go to Paris, even though she can’t speak the language, and has nothing to do all day. She and Big have one last big blow up, saying that whenever she finally feels happy, Big comes along and screws it up. (He does.)

More Sex and the City Boyfriends, Plus the REAL Reason You Hate Berger So Much

I think the reason people hated Berger so much is that he and Carrie were so much alike. Slightly kooky, self-deprecating, insecure, both writers, insecure, spent money on stupid stuff (overpriced clothes for her, motorcycles for him), and did I mention INSECURE?

Carrie DID buy him a nice shirt (which Berger looked delicious in) but prior to that, he remarked that a shirt that expensive should come with a studio apartment. Carrie was able to buy it for him because she just got an advance check from France. Yay for you, but have some sympathy for your fellow writer, who just got dropped from his publisher. Instead of a shirt, you might have asked him if he needed help with rent or something. I’d be a bit pissed if someone flaunted a $20,000 check in my face after I’d told them I lost my job, but that’s me. So sorry if I’m not jumping down with glee at your hard work. I’d invest that shit, but who am I? Carrie, instead of being financially responsible, blows 10 percent of it on a shirt for a guy she won’t ever see again. If anything, she should have bought something for Big. After all, he DID write her a $40,000 check so she could buy her apartment after Aidan evicted her. And since she insisted that Big was “in her life” and she couldn’t completely cut ties, he deserved something for coming back to such a nutty broad. So yeah, naaah, naaah, nah, nah, naaaaah to all you Berger haters.

You hate him because he’s male Carrie.

I love him because he’s Ron Livingston, hottest man on the planet.

Sex and the City Boyfriends, Continued!

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Aidan was stupid to come back not once, but TWICE. He allowed Big to come up and complain about his woman, getting so drunk he was forced to stay overnight. Aidan should have thrown them both out into the rain. I mean, Big DID say he could get his driver to come up, right? And Carrie could have driven Big back, but if either of those had been chosen, we wouldn’t have had the middle-aged men fight in the mud scene, would we? We can’t ever forget Carrie screaming, “You HAVE to forgive me, you HAVE to forgive me!” Bitch, WHAT? If anything, I think I hate Aidan the most, because he had no spine at all. Bitch cheated with him in Big and Natasha’s bed, came up to the cabin, STAYED OVERNIGHT IN THE CABIN, and yes, proposed to Carrie anyway. And then his nasty side came out.

Next post: the money shot. I talk Berger and why he wasn’t nearly as bad as everyone thinks he is.

Sex and the City Boyfriends, Continued!

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Remember Miranda’s “Catholic Guy”? Her beef was that he always showered after sex. That’s bad?

My one and only boyfriend stood in front of me once and asked me if I smelled bad. I smelled him and told him he seemed okay, but I asked why I was smelling him. He said he couldn’t remember the last time he showered. I told him to take a fucking shower.

So Miranda, does Catholic Guy seem so bad now? Well, dumb question. She hooked up with Steve, who supposedly has decent hygiene but a hefty body count. Steve had that refreshingly “young” vibe about him, but had strangely unrealistic goals for his and Miranda’s relationship. He wanted to have a baby with her, but settled for a puppy. Then they actually had the baby, and considering the writers and their gay bosses, did what we all knew she was going to do and kept the baby. Of course she did! She’s Miranda! She’s Superwoman! What I wonder is why she didn’t go for someone more ambitious, but then love is strange, I guess. We envision people with certain types of people, then we get floored when the drop-dead gorgeous woman ends up with a toad for a husband. Or some tall, skinny guy ends up with a butterball. Or someone with decent manners ends up with someone raised in a barn. Steve had skid-marks, which is disgusting. But that’s what happens when you do your boyfriend’s laundry. Samantha would NEVER have put up with that bullshit.

Next: Talk dirty to me, Charlotte